Break ups can cause pain and take a long time for people to recover from them. Most relationship issues can be sorted out. However, in certain instances this is not possible. When this is the case, it is important to learn from this experience so that you do not repeat these mistakes in the next relationship.
Before you do anything else, you should let go of any doubt that makes you think the relationship cannot be salvaged. Thousands of relationships are fixed daily in situations that are more hopeless than yours are.
Infidelity and loss of passion can surely be reversed if ex-convicts can get together with their loved ones after years of imprisonment. You probably know of someone who has taken back an ex and shaken your head in disbelief, thinking that you would never take someone back who has done what that person did to him or her.
Assess the pros and cons of going back to a relationship that has broken down. If he or she was abusing you then forget about it. Abusive relationships are major deal breakers. The problem is that people never change and if he or she abused you in the past, you can bet your bottom dollar that it will happen again.
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